Nurture and strengthen the love you have inside of you for yourself.
It’s not a selfish thing to do, but rather the opposite.
The more stongly you feel love inside you, the more resilient you will be, and the more aware of when you are in a non-loving place.
You want to have and share your love, not allow it to be drained away by anyone who doesn’t have it for themselves.
Joy and happiness in life are totally possible through love, acceptance, and awareness.