Sunday, February 26, 2017

Alone is not Lonely

Learn to be amazed alone.

Learn to be at peace alone.

Learn to be fulfilled alone.

Learn to enjoy your time alone.

Learn to love yourself.

In dojng these things, you will accomplish two things;

1. You will be a better partner if you choose to be with someone because you won’t need them to fill any void because you’ve done that for yourself

2. You won’t get sucked in to a damaging relationship because you’ll be able to recognize when that relationship has you feeling much worse than when you were alone.

You will be able to feel whole, to give more, and to become immune to receiving less.

-Doe Zantamata

Author of, Happiness in Your Life - Book One: Karma, the book that you can read in a night but it will change the way you see the world, forever.

Monday, February 20, 2017

Time to Fly

At a certain point, you'll know when, you've reached a time for change. No going've come too far. Don't look down at all the things that could go wrong if you fall. You can deal with them when and if they ever happen.
It's your time to use those wings of yours and fly.
~Doe Zantamata

Sunday, February 5, 2017

Living Now

People pass away. You will, too.

Everyone will, eventually.

When someone passes away, you’ll have to deal with grief, and guilt, and all the other natural human emotions that happen.

You’ll wonder if you mattered to them, if you made them happy, if you brought them joy, if your life improved theirs and if they were grateful to know you.

So today, matter to the people you care about.

Make them happy, bring them joy, improve their lives and let them know that you are grateful to spend this precious, fleeting time with them.

-Doe Zantamata

Friday, February 3, 2017

Who are you?

Who are you, if you are not yourself?

Whose opinions do you utter,  if they are not your own?

Whose dreams do you pursue if not the ones in your heart?

Who defines happiness for you, or success, or anything that matters in life?

Discover yourself.

Learn to pause, evaluate, discern, and disagree if things you hear don’t feel right.

You have this one life and though you’ll be influenced, inspired, hurt, discouraged, or lifted in some way by everyone you meet along the way, this life is yours to live, learn, and love.

Do it.

-Doe Zantamata

Wednesday, February 1, 2017

Relationship Intentions

In relationships, set daily intentions and become aware of your words and actions.

1. How will I make this person's life better?

2. How will I enjoy my time with this person?

3. How will I show this person that I appreciate them?

People lose interest when they feel drained by a relationship or unappreciated by their partner. Keep your relationship alive and well with conscious thought and effort every single day.

It’s not about presents, it’s about presence.

It’s not about big promises, it’s about little moments.

-Doe Zantamata