Part of being wise is being open.
Part of understanding is listening to opposing views with the knowledge that where it's coming from is a different truth, wholly believed by the person who is speaking.
On the surface it may sound like lies or wrong but underneath it is a truth...but a truth spoken out of fear. Combatting the beliefs can increase the fear.
Relieving the fear is the only way to change the beliefs that stem from it.
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